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You're Engaged... Now What? 9 Tasks to Tackle First

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Congratulations, you're engaged! Once you've had time to scream, cry, laugh, hug, kiss... whatever reaction came naturally to you, it's time to start planning a wedding! There's a LOT that goes into that, so you may not know exactly where to begin. 

Our online wedding store is here to help you through every part of the wedding planning process, from engagement parties and bridal showers through the ceremony and reception. (We've even got some wonderful items for your home together once the wedding is over!) 

Here are 9 tasks to tackle first after you get engaged. Once you get these out of the way, you'll be ready to handle the next wave of exciting decisions. 

Enjoy the Moment!

If you're very newly engaged, don't think that you have to start your wedding planning immediately after the question gets popped. Take some time, from a few hours to a few days, to enjoy some private time together excited about this new chapter in your life. 

Unless, of course, he asked you in front of all of your family and friends. In that case, you've already got these first 2 items crossed off the list. (Still plan to have some alone-time later to simply enjoy being engaged!) 

Share the Excitement

Don't go blasting the news on social media right away. You should let the people that are nearest and dearest to you in on the surprise first. Tell them in person if you can, or set up a video chat to break the news.

If you aren't able to do either of those, a phone call works wonderfully too. As soon as your immediate family and friends know your happy secret, go ahead and share it with the world. If that involves planning an engagement party, check out last week's blog about "Clever Tips for an Amazing Engagement Party." 

Head to the Nail Salon

Your finger donning that gorgeous new engagement ring will be the center of attention while everyone is finding out about the exciting news. A good manicure will make sure that none of the focus is taken from your engagement ring by beat-up nails. 

Consider Ring Insurance

More than likely nothing bad will ever happen to your new ring but it's always better to be safe than sorry. If a stone becomes loose or the ring somehow gets misplaced, you will be very happy that you thought ahead to get insurance. The jewelry store where the ring was purchased will often appraise it for free, which must be done before it can be insured. 

Get Organized

Staying organized during the wedding planning process will help to keep stress low and success high. This could be with a physical notebook or a digital program on your computer or mobile device. Whichever system works best for personally keeping you on track. This is where you will gather vendor information, contact details, appointments, and more. (Be sure to add to your VIP list of vendors! Our wedding decorations and accessories online are available to browse and order, 24/7.)  

We highly suggest hiring a wedding coordinator to guide you through all of the things that need to be done before the wedding. This helper can also take care of all the wedding day details so you can relax and simply enjoy your special day. If it'snot in your budget to hire someone, then it's even more important to come up with a good organization system to keep everything running smoothly.

Draft the Guest List

Your master wedding guest list will very likely go through a few changes over the next couple of months, but you need to have a general idea of the number of people that you will be inviting. This will be a very important factor for making many other wedding decisions, including where the ceremony and reception will take place. 

Decide on a Wedding Budget

Discuss how much you are comfortable spending on the wedding and vow to stick to that budget. The cost of odds and ends start adding up quickly during wedding planning. You don't want to ruin the memory of your special day with tons of bills due once it is over.

Decide what the most important wedding items are to you - food, music, entertainment, etc... - and use your money for those first. If something is not that important to your vision, then that's something you can simplify to spend less on or possibly get rid of altogether.

What's More Important - Venue or Date?

One of these can greatly affect the other. If you have your heart set on a specific wedding venue, then your wedding date will need to be one that they have available. On the other hand, if it's important that you tie the knot on a particular date, then this will immediately knock some venues off of your list if they are already booked. 

Schedule EngagementPhotos

It's good to get these done early if possible. Once you have the photos, you can start using them for fun wedding stuff like the wedding website, engagement announcements, and save-the-dates. Do wait until you have chosen a wedding photographer, though, because many of them have packages that include the engagement photos. 

Once you've tackled those tasks, it's time to really get down to business and tackle the "big" list. Still, just getting those first 9 out of the way will give you the confidence to take on the rest. Our online wedding store is an excellent resource for many of the items you will need for every part of the wedding experience. One-stop-shopping at helps to make lots of the other tasks a whole lot easier for you! 


~ The Team
Post by Deanna Powell, Certified Bridal Consultant

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